Saturday, February 19, 2011

MENUJU PENGUBAHSUAIAN PILIHAN RAYA DI MALAYSIA/TOWARDS ELECTION REFORM IN MALAYSIA






JEMPUTAN FORUM UMUM: MENUJU PENGUBAHSUAIAN PILIHAN RAYA DI MALAYSIA


Kami, bagi pihak Jawatankuasa Induk BERSIH 2.0, ingin menjemput anda dan organisasi anda ke forum umum mengenai Pengubahsuaian Terkini Suruhanjaya Pilihan Raya.

Fokus utama forum ini adalah untuk membincangkan isu-isu mengenai pengubahsuaian pilihan raya dan proses-proses yang terlibat untuk melanjutkan usaha ke arah pilihan raya yang telus, bersih dan adil.

Kami sangat mengalu-alukan kedatangan anda dan organisasi anda. Segala maklum balas sangat penting dan menyumbang ke arah pilhan raya yang telus, bersih dan adil.

Butir-butir pelancaran adalah seperti berikut:

Tarikh : 21 Februari 2011 (Isnin)

Masa : 8.00 malam – 10.30 malam

Tarikh : 21 Februari 2011 (Isnin)

Masa : 8.00 malam – 10.30 malam

Tempat : Bilik Gerakan, Tingkat 1, Majlis Bandaraya Petaling Jaya, Jalan Yong Shook Lin, 46675 Petaling Jaya, Selangor.


Untuk maklumat lanjut, sila berhubung dengan Nurul di talian 03-77844977.

Sekian, terima kasih.


Yang benar,

Dato’ Ambiga Sreenevasan

Pengerusi Ahli Jawatankuasa Induk

Ahli Jawatankuasa Induk BERSIH 2.0:

Dato’ Ambiga Sreenevasan, (Pengerusi), Andrew Khoo, Arumugam K., Dr Farouk Musa, Haris Ibrahim, Liau Kok Fah, Maria Chin Abdullah, Richard Y W Yeoh, Dr Toh Kin Woon, Dr Wong Chin Huat, Datuk Yeo Yang Poh, Zaid Kamaruddin, Subramaniam Pillay dan Arul Prakkash.


On behalf of BERSIH 2.0, we would like to invite you and your organization to our public forum on “Towards Election Reform in Malaysia”.

The aim of this forum is to promote discussion regarding the possible reform for elections and their processes, with the intention of making election transparent, clean and fair.

We sincerely, look forward to your attendance as your feedback is very important and will contribute towards bringing about a transparent, clean and fair election reforms.

The details are as follows.

Date : 21 February 2011 (Monday)

Time : 8.00 pm –10.30 pm

Venue : Bilik Gerakan

First Floor, Majlis Bandaraya Petaling Jaya, Jalan Yong Shook Lin, 46675 Petaling Jaya, Selangor.


We look forward to your positive response.

If you have any queries please do contact Miss Nurul at 03-77844977.


Yours sincerely,

Dato’ Ambiga Sreenevasan

Pengerusi Ahli Jawatankuasa Induk

The Steering Committee of BERSIH 2.0 comprises:

Dato’ Ambiga Sreenevasan, (Chairperson), Andrew Khoo, Arumugam K., Dr Farouk Musa, Haris Ibrahim, Liau Kok Fah, Maria Chin Abdullah, Richard Y W Yeoh, Dr Toh Kin Woon, Dr Wong Chin Huat, Datuk Yeo Yang Poh, Zaid Kamaruddin, Subramaniam Pillay and Arul Prakkash.



Wednesday, February 9, 2011

How to get the perfect divorce


Published by The Guardian UK on 9 Feb 2011. By Afua Hirsch.

1 Ensuring the best outcome for a divorce should start before a lawyer is even instructed. "Sometimes clients just need to leave time before proceeding with a divorce," says Vanessa Lloyd Platt, from divorce solicitors Lloyd Platt & Co. "I won't deal with a divorce less than six months after a woman has given birth for example, because people – both men and women – are often very exhausted, upset and disappointed in each other. Decisions taken then are not necessarily the best ones."

2 Many lawyers also recommend that clients have therapy while going through the divorce; it's rarely a good idea to use time with a lawyer to talk through the emotional issues. "We are infinitely more expensive than therapists and we need to be able to remain commercial about the process of a divorce, while providing empathy," says Sandra Davis, head of family law at Mishcon de Reya. "I always recommend a therapist, and for clients to use mediation or family therapy for child-related disputes."

3 Once the decision to proceed with a divorce has been taken, the choice of lawyer is key. Obviously it makes sense to choose one with experience in matrimonial law. But also, says Lloyd Platt, "Having two divorce lawyers who have a working relationship with each other is crucial."

4 Mediation can help avoid adversarial and antagonistic proceedings and the government now requires couples whose divorce is paid for by public funding to mediate, as a way of trying to resolve disputes out of court.

It involves a single mediator working with both parties to agree on the division of assets, maintenance and other issues. Mediators are often lawyers who have had special training and usually hold between three and five sessions, each lasting 60-90 minutes, over two or three months. This can cost from around £300 to £1,000 depending how many sessions are needed. Many lawyers recommend finding a mediator who is registered with Resolution, the family law advice organisation. But mediation must be done at the right stage. "If you mediate too early, and you don't have enough financial information or disclosure, it will unravel," says Lloyd Platt.

5 Collaborative law – a technique that requires both parties to work together in a constructive manner – is also popular with many lawyers. "This requires both parties and their solicitors to sign a participation agreement," says John Osborne, partner at Cumbria-based law firm Temple Heelis. "They agree not to go over past events, to deal with matters in a non-confrontational way, to be open about finances and arrangements, and not to give secret advice. All meetings are conducted together. If the process breaks down because they can't reach agreement, the two solicitors are automatically disqualified." The parties then need to go down the normal route.

Mediation and conflict resolution are particularly good at minimising the detrimental impact of divorce on children. "It's so important to maintain a line of communication where children are involved, and to find ways of agreeing about them," says Davis.

6 It's essential to maintain realistic expectations. Men and women tend to approach the outcomes very differently. "There is absolutely no doubt that many men treat the whole divorce issue as a business deal. Many women get very emotionally attached to the family home," says Lloyd Platt. "Sometimes we have to advise a woman that if she can let go of the notion that she needs to keep the home, she may be able to agree a better financial settlement."

"For a divorce to work, everyone has to feel a bit of pain when it comes to settlements and each side has to give and take," says Davis.